A debate: being free and kind, or demanding respect and importance

Be better than before, than yesterday...

There are two conflicting thoughts:    one is to be kind and helpful - tell to the world.   And this post would like to live by that paradigm.  All that was given to you free shall be re given to others free .  A certain religous and ethnic group likes to live by this and are truly blessed.

However there is another point of view the Machiavellian point of view that others must give respect and honor to your unique talents and leadership.  

Which is better?

For the first one, I could not get any consultancy because I give the secret to all those who ask.  And my distinct advantage over others do not get more noticed.  Others take advantage of my generosity.  Even our business partners.   They pick my brains and then proceed to do it on their own.  No respect. No NDA

I would like to tell of a story of a business person who got the best deal out of me/us: (and  abused us)

     1.  Sued us  constantly

     2.  Made it hard to give us ROW.  It had been pending for 20 years +

     3.  Having an appointment with her takes ages and is extremely difficult

However a member of the family got critically ill and has 7 number bill at the hospital and would want me to give her aid.

Should we or not.   Or the person reaps what she has sowed

The problem with being unsuccessful is unupdated mindset

Be better than before, than yesterday.

Last year and lately I have encountered people who have not moved forward because their mindset were static

1.  A relative approached me and was looking for livelihood.   So I offered her to be an agent of a project but said it was too far away and the locals would have advantage.   So let it be   Now the project is 50 % sold out.  We have just two remaining inventories for the large lots and 50% remaining inventory for small lots.  As for the other agents who persisted they are now enjoying the fruits of their labor

2.  We offered our staff a small but substantial com for selling lots (they are salaried) and reaching targets

They have not responded positively to this

3.   There was this contractor whom I guided to have a business deal.  I helped him close the deal.  But he remained to be a guy who stood behind my pants and shadow.  He need to be reminded and followed up and lacked guts.  He was aftraid of pre selling and moving ahead.  He is awaiting for validation and approval.   At age of junior no such approval are needed..   FSA.  Full speed ahead.

Signs that the Lord is blocking money due to you unless you correct these thing

Be better than before, than yesterday...

How many times you experience that money that must come to you are being blockec becasue some of the things due you are being blocked ?   Signs

1.   Losses:    medical bills theft hound you

2    Broken financial relationships

3.  Ingratitude -  you are not happy with what you have.

Your actions must be spiritually aligned.  Not simply to be personally prosperous.  

You have to remove these blocks

1.  Are you arrogant selfish always angry?

2.  Are you entirely 100% honest and not taking advantage of others?  Are you paying your employees on time?   Your suppliers?  Your partners?

3   Are you grateful.    The tithing test  Can you give 10% prior to receving the 90%

     Each day, say thank you to the Lord each morning, Each evening, list down 10 things to be grateful to       the  Lord

     May you and your dealing be blessed by the Lord.  Act with wisdom and act with humility.  You are a co creator.  Use these learning wisely.  

Why writing down is magical and becomes real?

Be better than before, than yesterday...

A thought is just an electron, a pulse a wave of energy .  and then its gone. But when you write this down, and capture and write it down.  It becomes a particle

From the ether to physical universe. It becomes write.   When you write, the neuro transmitter fires off, the impression is in thousands of location.     (when you type there are less)

Why writing down is magical? From ether to the physcial world