There are two conflicting thoughts: one is to be kind and helpful - tell to the world. And this post would like to live by that paradigm. All that was given to you free shall be re given to others free . A certain religous and ethnic group likes to live by this and are truly blessed.
However there is another point of view the Machiavellian point of view that others must give respect and honor to your unique talents and leadership.
Which is better?
For the first one, I could not get any consultancy because I give the secret to all those who ask. And my distinct advantage over others do not get more noticed. Others take advantage of my generosity. Even our business partners. They pick my brains and then proceed to do it on their own. No respect. No NDA
I would like to tell of a story of a business person who got the best deal out of me/us: (and abused us)
1. Sued us constantly
2. Made it hard to give us ROW. It had been pending for 20 years +
3. Having an appointment with her takes ages and is extremely difficult
However a member of the family got critically ill and has 7 number bill at the hospital and would want me to give her aid.
Should we or not. Or the person reaps what she has sowed
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