A debate: being free and kind, or demanding respect and importance

Be better than before, than yesterday...

There are two conflicting thoughts:    one is to be kind and helpful - tell to the world.   And this post would like to live by that paradigm.  All that was given to you free shall be re given to others free .  A certain religous and ethnic group likes to live by this and are truly blessed.

However there is another point of view the Machiavellian point of view that others must give respect and honor to your unique talents and leadership.  

Which is better?

For the first one, I could not get any consultancy because I give the secret to all those who ask.  And my distinct advantage over others do not get more noticed.  Others take advantage of my generosity.  Even our business partners.   They pick my brains and then proceed to do it on their own.  No respect. No NDA

I would like to tell of a story of a business person who got the best deal out of me/us: (and  abused us)

     1.  Sued us  constantly

     2.  Made it hard to give us ROW.  It had been pending for 20 years +

     3.  Having an appointment with her takes ages and is extremely difficult

However a member of the family got critically ill and has 7 number bill at the hospital and would want me to give her aid.

Should we or not.   Or the person reaps what she has sowed

Secrets for making money (its all about habits and mindsets)

It is about getting better...

Having more money is the result of your mindset, attitude about money.  

If your are generous, you will be generous with money.  

If you think money is bad, source of all evil, then you will sabotage money making

1  Money is tool, is a means to achieve things.  Not an enemy, or a problem   Money should be your ally.

2.  Time is worth more than money   You can recover money, but not time (So that you must use money to buy time)  Make more money by using less time.     We only have 24 hours a day.    We must know how to use time wisely.  

3.  Invest in yourself:   education, training, skills.  Not in cars house, luxury.     Never stop learning, improving.  If you improve, more php comes as a result.  

Start changing your mindset.

1.  Be thankful

2.  Invest time in self improvement.   Even if it is little

     

"How to get respect" from Craig Ballantyne

Repost from  New American Dream

We can get respect if we are wealthy or successful 

How do you become successful?  Know more from Craig Ballantyne



"I want you to know I have a deep respect for you. Your success matters to me. I hope that you have all the success you want right now. But if you don't have the respect and prosperity you want, I want to help you get it.

We've all been there. Maybe it's being scared to check your bank balance. Or maybe it's avoiding the "how's work" conversation with your in-laws. But we've all had that sinking feeling of "not being good enough" one time or another.

You can change that, and I can help you do it."

Your survival manual; survival secrets

From Stansberry Research by Dr. David Eifreg

It has been called the most important book of 2013.  It is very timely with the coming of super typhoon in the PHL tomorrow

             

Tonight, there are a lot of news, that the powerful typhoon Yolanda will make a landfall in the PHL.  It is a super typhoon because it packs winds of over 200 kph and in Samar and Leyte, Signal No 4 has been declared.  There is still the cone of danger and the typhoon may change course and devastate Central and Southern Luzon.  We must be wary.

The book by Dr. Eifreg Doctors Protocol Field  Manual suggests that we are to be prepared for any disaster.  When there is a disaster or any disruption, we must be prepared to be on our own.  With too many needing help, help may not reach us on time, or in right form or quantity.

Survival secrets (in plane travel or in urban areas) and health secrets are enumerated.   So you may get the book, or simply be aware of any crisis.  Be prepared.  Laging handa