Showing posts with label siblings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label siblings. Show all posts

Friday, July 24, 2026

Setting the narrative right for lifes achievement

Be better than before, than yesterday...





Sometimes the greatest motivation for a man is his sense of achievement, ie that he developed his gift for the good of humanity.   However it was not the case for me... Although this post tried very hard to develop himself for the good of his family and the community the sense of achievement was stolen from him.  The narrative that persisted when the family assets were divided that the same was an inheritance was from the parents (true because what the documents say)and this was concretized in the tombstone.    However the rest of the heirs did not see (as they were still  in school then) the every contract, every agreement every plan, every vision, strategy originated from this post.  The father did not like business or signing agreement as he was a govt employee;  the mother could not have not done this because of limited knowledge.

The father died early, the mother feted her barkada and brod and sis to casino resto, hotels, travel abroad, as anyone who would have enough money  knows when he she has some money...

There is no gratitude from those who are benefitted from this largesse coming out of my thoughts and sweat.   The narrative was that which I supported then was that the mother was the genius and the entrepreneur.  

May the Lord bless them all

The march to progress continued even when the father died, and even when the mother died iin 2008

Thursday, April 13, 2017

We feel sorry for younger businessmen who cant get beyond their small brain thinking

It is about getting better...

Rizal Philippines
April 13, 2107

When I was very naive, I convinced my parents to embark on business venture in order to give great image and wealth to the family Later on when my parents died, and my siblings kicked me out of the board.l  I regretted having made that goal in life.

While I entirely planned and executed the business plans, they totally ignored that and said it was my parents who gave their wealth to them (true but even the will and testament of the parents were executed favorably for them.  How ungrateful.)

Lately I was hoping that we  could make amends and offered them two business proposal:  one was to be a servicing mortuary for a pre need company, and the other was a grant of right way deal where they could earn millions.   For the first one, they did not sign a deal, so we had to give it to another party.  For the second one, they over stretched and maxed out their greed and proposed a totally unacceptable deal.  I just dont know their kind of thinking that limits their growth and grabbing business opportunity.  The pre need company can help them boost their business (which funded:  the chapel and the crematorium which they had not paid to me)

And then even came out with an announcement that gave negative image of their company.  

More power and good luck to their small minds

They will have their comeuppance