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Saturday, January 12, 2013

The Ten Common Sense Commandments to Living a Better Life



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Living a Better Life

When I struggled with anxiety, I eventually learned that the only way to change things was one breath at a time. Slow and deep, inhale through the nose and down into the belly, and then slowly out through the mouth, making sure to exhale fully. Starting there, with that one simple step on my to-do list, I was able to turn things around physiologically and psychologically.

Today, one of my best friends and an incredible leader in the fitness industry, Bedros Keuilian gives you a simple, proven, and powerful blueprint to living a better life.

Craig Ballantyne

Get rid of that negative self-talk. Change your mindset to one where you truly believe in yourself.



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By Bedros Keuilian

All too often we forget what we should remember and we remember what we should forget.

It's officially 2013, and whether you hit your goals for 2012 or you missed them by a mile - forget them.

If you did hit your goals in 2012, that's great, but it's not going to do you a lot of good in 2013.

And if you missed your goals for 2012, then dwelling on that fact isn't going to help you make 2013 any better.

Forget about 2012 all together.

It's a brand new year and you have a brand new opportunity to make a massive impact in your community, in your business and on your personal development.

But I sincerely hope you didn't make any resolutions this year.

I just looked up some stats on New Year resolutions and found some interesting facts that confirmed my suspicions.

First off, only 45% of people make resolutions.

Within the first week, 25% have already broken their resolution.

By six months nearly 60% have fallen off the wagon - the rest are unaccounted for.

Those aren't reassuring facts.

But this is something we can ignore. Here's why.

This is a list of the Top Ten Resolutions made for 2013 are:
  1. Lose Weight
  2. Getting Organized
  3. Spend Less, Save More
  4. Enjoy Life to the Fullest
  5. Staying Fit and Healthy
  6. Learn Something Exciting
  7. Quit Smoking
  8. Help Others in Their Dreams
  9. Fall in Love
  10. Spend More Time with Family
These should NOT be resolutions, they should be a way of life. That list of top ten resolutions should really be called...

The Ten Common Sense Commandments to Living a Better Life.

Everyone should just be doing this stuff, don't you think?

It breaks my heart to think that people make these resolutions only to break them at an alarming rate - losing further hope.

But instead we continue to make resolutions, more like spontaneous proclamations of how we want the future to look, only to fall short because resolutions give you a false sense of preparedness.

Resolutions are a complete and total waste of time.

That's my expert opinion.

Simply saying that you want to be "more organized" in 2013 isn't going to magically make you more productive, increase your self-discipline or make you better at time
management.

You might as well wish for a pink unicorn because the odds of getting that are just as good.

Resolutions don't work. So if you have them, just forget about them now. Just stop.

I will tell you what does work and how you can achieve anything you want to achieve in 2013.

Ready for some good news?

Set goals.

I know, I know, that's not profound. You were probably expecting something deeper than just "set goals."

But the fact is, goal setting works, almost every time, if done right...

....and that's what I want to teach you.

So let's go with #2 there on that list above - get more organized.

If your goal was to get more organized, then reverse engineer what the outcome would be.

In this case it would be to get all of your daily tasks done efficiently and on time.

It would mean that you'd have to be better at time management and productivity.

That's your outcome. In other words, if you were good with time management and productivity, and if you got all of your tasks done on time and efficiently, then someone might look at you and say, "by God, this person is really organized."

So how wound you go about meeting this goal on a daily basis?

You'd start each day with a list; an actual paper list with your things to do on it.

If you have long term items like create a follow along fitness program online then that's not something that's going to get done in one day.

For big task items like that you'd set a deadline, and then each day you'd work on a thing or two that keeps you on track to meet your deadline.

How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.

Now, the things on your "to do" list should be in order of importance.

If you were organized, you'd ruthlessly guard your time and put your list first. No Facebook, no emails, no twitter or Youtube, and no checking the text messages or voice mails.

You'd set a time when you'd do your list (ideally first thing in the morning, right after a workout), and you'd plow through your list without giving into temptations of the things that can suck your time and productivity away.

You'd have your daily ritual and you'd stick to it.

Each and every weekday would look the same way.

For me, my list is to wake up, send out an email, hit Starbucks, get my workout in, go into my business headquarters, go through my list to things to do, and then come out of my cave and make myself available to my staff.

Then make my list of things to do for the next day and head home.

Nice, simple, routine.

I don't know what your goals are for 2013. But I can tell you that if you write them down, and reverse engineer what the outcome would look like, and you create new habits and then take action on your goals each day - you will achieve them 100% of the time.

I like those odds.


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[Ed. Note. Bedros Keuilian is the embodiment of the American Dream. Arriving in the United States from the communist Soviet Union back in 1980, his family went from being broke to eventually adding value to their new community. Today, Bedros helps over 45,000 fitness experts grow their businesses.  Bedros knows the American Dream is NOT dead, because he is living it right now. So are the folks in this inspiring video - watch it now.]

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Sometimes all it takes is joining a community of like-minded and motivated individuals to give you that push that you need to accomplish your goals.  That was just what Forest Vance needed to improve his internet business,"I still did more revenue in these three days than I usually do in an entire month with my internet business. And overall, I'll have my best month online ever by far. Most importantly, I learned a TON from the experience, and I know what I need to do grow my business and get where I want to be." If you want to build wealth, hang around wealthy people. If you want to stop smoking, hang around people that don't smoke. If you want to have a good relationship with God, hang around people that have a good relationship with God. If you want to be fit and healthy, hang around people that are fit and healthy. If you want to be a good person, hang around good people. They ARE out there. They WANT to help. Be there, and let them. You'll find these good people in the ETR Transformation Contest here.



Saturday, January 5, 2013

Scary: 88% of Resolutions FAIL

Strategies start from personal mastery.  Habits can destroy a well plannned strategy.  Bad employee habits are the enemies of company leadership.   But can you change habits.

Can you make people succeed on their "resolutions?"

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Each year, more than 100 million people make
New Year's Resolutions in the U.S....
...and each year, more than 88 million people
FAIL at accomplishing their goal.
Almost 90% of people do not accomplish their
goals - don't be one of them.
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Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Do Not Go This Way - to Rest

Strive to be the best always.

For as long as we live, that is the mandate.  There could be no rest.

To stop means stopping to breath or live.

To live is to face and solve problems always.

To die is to rest

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Do Not Go This Way

A small number of sharks have lost the ability to pump water over their gills at rest (that's how they extract oxygen to survive). Therefore, they must swim continuously without rest. They must always be moving.

In the same way, Jonathan Fields argues today that there is no going sideways in life. No coasting allowed. We must always be making an effort to progress, to live without fear of failure. He also explains how to handle fear. Enjoy his wisdom.

Craig Ballantyne

"Going out on your own and being self-reliant is not risky. Being reliant on (a broken) government, now that's risky." - Simon Black



There Is No Sideways in Life

By Jonathan Fields

I've been asked the question a lot since my book, Career Renegade, came out.

How do you handle fear?

"Well, comes my answer, "that depends. Fear of what?"

"Of failure, of course."

"Wrong fear," I add. "You wanna be afraid, really afraid, take a look at what your life will look like not if you try and fail...but if you keep on keeping on for decades. That's the real nightmare scenario for most people."

What?

Simple fact, there is no sideways, no coasting...no neutral.

Not in relationships, not in business, not in spiritual growth, not in life. There's only up or down, though the rate of acceleration and the magnitude of the progress in either direction often leads us to to some very warped perceptions. When we're rising quickly, life is grand...though very likely unsustainable. When we're plummeting rapidly, life blows and, similarly, with even a modicum of intervention, this path is rarely sustainable either.

In each of these scenarios, though, the speed and magnitude of the change in the way we experience life is so great and, often, so outwardly apparent, that we - or those around us - are moved to act to either support or redirect our trajectory. Action in the context of such powerful movement is a near mandate.

But, what of those periods where we're sliding ever-so-slowly up or down?

In those periods, we're often governed largely not by action, but by inertia. The desire to not rock our own boats. "Hey," we say, "life's not so bad. So what if I'm not making what I'd like to make, I'm getting by. So, what if my marriage isn't great, it's not THAT bad. Who cares if I'm a little fatter, sicker and in just a bit more pain. It's not such a big deal."

Problem is,  "I'm getting by. It's not THAT bad and it's not such a big deal," may be workable answers now. But, the only reason they're workable is because you're assuming that you'll stay largely at these same levels over time. That if you don't do anything substantial to change, 10, 20 or 30 years from now, your business, income, health, relationships will just keep going pretty much sideways, coasting...and you're okay with that.

Except there is no coasting. There is no neutral. No sideways.

It's a myth, an illusion. There's only up or down.

Which means, if you're teetering on the edge of happiness, health, liquidity and contentment now, then 10, 20 or 30 years from now, if you really paint a vivid picture of your "do nothing to change" scenario, your life will likely be somewhere between really unpleasant and really dead.
Because unaddressed over time,
  • Nagging pain becomes chronic, acute and debilitating
  • Unrewarding work becomes soulless, life-sucking agony
  • Passable health becomes obesity, disease and, for many, early death
  • Unattentive relationships become estranged, angry, bitter, dysfunctional and nonexistent, and

Your currently "passable" life becomes increasingly painful as you enter the long, slow slide toward death. Because you failed to accept the knowledge that there is no sideways, there is only up or down. Even if the pace is slow, barely detectable. There's no such thing as sideways.

Which leaves you with a realization and circles back to my original question.

How do you handle fear?

Don't just ask the fear of failure question, add two others...
  • What if I succeed?
  • What if I do nothing?
Then, paint lush, vivid, highly sensory pictures of each. Play out your failure scenario, along with it's recovery. Play out your success scenario. Then, play out your do nothing scenario, 10, 20 and 30 years from now. For far too many, that becomes the real nightmare, the outcome most important to abort. Then tap your fear of manifesting that outcome as a core driver to break your state of inertia and go after the vivid success scenario.

And, the next time you feel like inertia, sideways, coasting...neutral is enough. Think again.

[Ed. Note. Jonathan Fields is a dad, husband, author, speaker, A-list blogger and serial wellness-industry entrepreneur. Fields writes about entrepreneurship and creativity at www.JonathanFields.com and interviews emerging world-shakers at www.GoodLifeProject.com. His latest book, Uncertainty: Turning Fear and Doubt Into Fuel For Brilliance, was named the #1 personal development book of 2011 by 800-CEO-Read.]
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Thursday, August 2, 2012

Your Secret Weapon for Achieving Your Dreams

Here is feed for achieving your dream.  The secret is time management

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I had one look at my to-do list and thought, "Uh-oh, that's too much work." But then I decided to add two more pieces of bonus content for our Virtual Mastermind to the list. After all, I had a secret weapon that would help me get it all done. I'll explain today...

Craig Ballantyne

"I'm willing to do whatever is necessary to succeed." - Ted Nicholas 


Use This Weapon to Achieve Your Dreams

By Craig Ballantyne

On the cold, clear morning of December 27th, 2010, I had to rush my mom to the hospital. She had been experiencing chest pain for a couple of days, she later told me, and things were getting worse. As I waited in the Emergency Room to hear from the doctors, I thought about all of the things - both personal and professional - I wanted to achieve while my mom was still around to see them.

Fortunately, I expect her to be around for many, many more years. She was lucky that her chest pain was nothing more than a pulled muscle. But I couldn't get the nagging "what if" out of my head all week...

I know it's a terrible thing to think about, but it made me get my butt in gear on some major life goals. And now that I've set a deadline for these - both personal and professional - I'm already making much more progress than when they were vague "want to do" goals.

Deadlines make you take action...and although they are uncomfortable and force you to work furiously under pressure, deadlines also bring big rewards when you meet them.

Every morning, I read one of the 100 Kekich Credo's, which are 100 "life lessons" written by a very interesting man, Dave Kekich. One that always strikes me with its power and simplicity is:

"No one gets old by surprise." - Kekich Credo #84

We all have things we want to accomplish.

We all have dreams and goals of a better life that we want to live.

Yet for some of us, the steps we need to take to get there are always "put off until tomorrow".

The reason I bring this up is because I've heard from a lot of folks this week about why they didn't enter our recent Financial Independence Monthly Transformation Contest.

The excuses, obviously, were not very good. After all, they were just that: excuses.

I may as well have been told that "Their dog ate their computer."

Listen, the reason why you didn't enter the contest was because you really, truly don't have sufficient reason to change.

Deep down, you're happy with the way things are now.

Sure, sure, you tell everyone - or at least you tell me - that you want to build a second income and make money with your website.

But actions speak louder than words.

It's time to step up and hold yourself accountable.

You can't depend on others to do that for you.

You have to be honest with yourself.

Am I going to do this or not?

Do I want the freedom and independence I can get by building a website business or am I happy just to daydream about it?

There's nothing wrong with daydreaming.

But you have recognize the difference between daydreaming and serious goal setting. Two very, very different things.

So it's time to take things very seriously. There are two more quotes that I've stumbled across in the past year that are like a bucket of cold water to my face, and I think you'll find they affect you the same way.

"Whatever your dreams are, start taking them very, very seriously." - Barbara Sher
And...

"You have less time than you think. We all do. Why then are you waiting to fulfill your desire? If you do not start today, then when will you start? You will never start unless you start NOW. Commit yourself heart and soul." - Felix Dennis

My goal is to help 10,000 men and women gain their financial independence this year through creating an internet business.

We don't have much time left in 2012, and everyday that you procrastinate, I get closer to failure.

So here's what I need you to do:
  1. Set hard deadlines for finishing a major project in your business.
  2. Now cut that deadline by 10%, 25%, or even 50%.
  3. Trust me, you'll find a way to get it done in less time.
One of the most important lessons Tim Ferriss taught us in The 4-Hour Work Week was about "Parkinson's Law" which states:

"Work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion."

That means if you don't have a deadline for project completion, then you'll keep on finding new stuff to add or edit and the work will drag on forever.

If we set a deadline for 6-months from now, we'll meet it.

But if take that same project and cut the deadline to just 3-months from now, we would still meet it.

We'd find a way.

So get serious. Set a tough deadline. And get it done.

Set a deadline to act now, because without deadlines, nothing would get done.

The deadline is your secret weapon for achieving your dreams.

Take action.

Action leads to attraction.

Action creates momentum and brings opportunity. You'll be amazed at the people you attract into your business and life when you start taking action and overcome inertia.

I'm off to take my own advice, and I'll let you know how it goes.

[Ed. Note. Craig Ballantyne is the Editor of EarlytoRise.com and Financial Independence Monthly. He also coaches executives of companies with sales over $1 million. Today, Matt Smith and Craig are now offering more information on their new virtual mastermind program. Click here to find out more.]
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If you've read The 4-Hour Work Week, you'll remember the term "Parkinson's Law", which says, "Work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion." That means if you don't have a deadline for project completion, then you'll keep on finding new stuff to add or edit and the work will drag on forever. I was experiencing this last year in my fitness business with my Turbulence Training Personal Trainer Certification. My preparation work dragged on and on, until I finally paid for a conference room and videographer and booked a filming date. By setting the filming deadline, it MADE me get the work done.  So if you have a project that is lingering, set a deadline - one that comes with monetary consequences for missing it - and get it DONE.  So set your long-term and short-term deadlines and use deadlines in your offer, and you'll get more done and make more money. Getting more done in less time is one of the most important skills you can acquire on your way to developing financial independence. But listen, today is the last day to join our Virtual Mastermind program where we'll show you the exact path to financial success - and hold you accountable to your deadlines. Reserve your spot before the program closes TONIGHT at midnight.

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Fwd: The Power of Focus

Stay focussed.  Concentrate your energy and activities on an endeavor one at a time.  Do not scatter yourself.   Do not spread the butter too thin.

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How I Focus

There's that time of day for all of us when we find the ability to focus comes much easier than at any other time of day. For me, it's first thing in the morning. For you, it might be those last two hours at the end of a workday as the deadline looms. Whenever it may be, you must make the most of it. Clear the schedule, eliminate all distractions, and focus. That's one key component of harnessing the power of your mind. The other, as Susan explains today, is knowing where you want to go. Over to Kung Fu Girl with another excellent essay that will help your financial situation.

Craig Ballantyne

"It's not strength that matters; it's focus." -- Bruce Lee



The Power of Focus
By Susan Fujii, Kung Fu Finance Girl

I graduated from college in 1996. For four years afterwards (four really fun years...) I did not focus on investing or on "personal finance" at all. These were the boom years, the party days, the "sure I'd love to buy all fifty of you another round of drinks, who's counting?" nights. Good times, indeed.

My attention was directed on other things at the time, and sure enough, while those things flourished (I did meet and eventually marry Kung Fu Guy, so it wasn't all for naught!), my personal finances withered in neglect, and that's putting it kindly.

In fact, they withered so much that when Kung Fu Guy and I decided to start our own business in 2000, I had no idea what money I had (or rather, as it turned out, what I didn't have!). My attention had been elsewhere, and when I finally turned my focus onto my personal finances, it was not a pretty picture.

Luckily, this was just the wake up call I needed (nothing like an extremely embarrassing conversation with your future spouse to motivate you into action!). It went something like this:

Kung Fu Guy: "So, how much do you have in your checking account?"
Me: "Um, er, uh, well, I'm not exactly sure..."
Kung Fu Guy: "OK, well, do you have any credit card debt?"
Me: "Um, I don't think so....? Not anymore...?"
Kung Fu Guy: "That's good, are you sure???"
Me: "Um, well, I think so...."

And on and on...I remember never feeling so embarrassed in my life. (At the time, his vision of me was of this smart, savvy businesswoman who managed a 70+ person team of engineers and earned a six-figure income). Boy, did I ever throw a wrench into that pretty little picture!

Now, I'm not a dumb person (although after reading this I won't blame you for disagreeing...) but what I fell prey to for those four years is a stealthy killer that plagues us all:

Lack Of Focus

Lack of focus is one of the most difficult things we must fight against every single day.

In today's hectic world we are constantly bombarded by information of all kinds from multiple sources. By the time the average person has arrived at work they have already received a deluge of distracting information, from the morning news on TV to the multiple tweets and emails received on your mobile phone to the radio and billboard ads on your drive to work...it's incessant.

Everyone and everything in your life is competing for your most prized possession...your attention, or rather, your focused attention.

Your attention is a supremely powerful force, and like the sun it can be either diffuse and divided amongst many different objects, or funneled into a focused laser-beam of light that has the power to burn whatever it touches (think Cyclops in the X-Men--when he removed those glasses, watch out...now that is some focused attention!).

You have that power, too. Your focus is one of the most powerful weapons you have in your investing (and life!) arsenal.

You've probably noticed the power of focused attention in other areas of your life. If you have children you know that the single greatest gift you can ever give them is your undivided, focused attention. My girls love it when I focus my attention on them with no distractions--with just a few minutes of focused attention I can transform them from whining and crying into the two happiest little girls you have ever seen in your life.

Likewise, if you have ever done any goal-setting you know how important it is to state your goals positively and specifically ("I will eat 5 servings of fruit and vegetables each day") versus negatively and vaguely ("I will NOT eat any junk food"). This is because you will focus your attention on whatever you write, and of course you want to focus on the positive (healthy fruit and vegetables), not the negative (junk food).

In kung fu there is a well-known example of the power of focus. Called "Iron Hand" or "Iron Palm", practitioners learn to focus their attention and their energy, or chi, into the palms of their hands with enough force to break bricks or blocks of ice without hurting their hands.

Focus is a powerful force in all areas of life, but I have found it to be exceptionally important in investing, particularly while learning. It is easy to become overwhelmed by the plethora of options available when you are just starting out as an investor. Where do you begin? Should you buy gold and silver? Learn how to properly value stocks? Focus on "cash-flowing" investments like real estate or dividend-paying stocks or bonds?

And even when you do choose a "starting point", say, the stock market, for example, that opens up another round of choices. Should you focus on individual stock-picking and how to read financial statements? On ETF's? Mutual funds? Closed-end funds? Options? What kind of options? Puts or calls or LEAPS or spreads? Should you buy options or sell options? Should you learn fundamental analysis or technical analysis? Focus on emerging markets, or global world dominators? And on and on and on....the choices never end.

However, luckily you have something absolutely magical that will help you focus your attention on what will immediately provide you with the quickest return on your investment of time.

And that magical tool is your vision.

Writing your vision down on paper will instantly help you focus your attention on what you want from your financial life. It's a critical first step in narrowing your all-important investing focus down to something that is manageable and achievable for you. From there, you can continue to narrow your focus down to short and long-term goals that will enable you to make your vision a reality, and can narrow it even further down to the best strategies you will pursue to achieve those goals.

And then watch out....the power of your focus will astonish you!

When I did this back in 2000 it had an immediate positive effect on my money. Just by focusing on where my money was going and what had happened to it I was instantly able to plug the gaps and start saving much more money. And once I had plugged the obvious gaps in my money, I began focusing on what to do with the extra money I had each month.

Fast forward ten years and now not only do I know how to read a company's financial statements, I also create and review personal financial statements for our family each month. At any given moment I can tell you precisely what the value of each of our accounts is, the rate of return we are expecting to get, the rate of return we are actually getting, articulate the reasons we are invested in that particular investment and our exit strategy, and much, much more. (I've come a long way, thankfully!)

The same is true for my investing education...I did not learn "how to invest" all at once; rather, using my vision as my guide I patiently (and sometimes not-so-patiently...) worked to master one small portion of each massive area at a time. I could never have become an accredited investor had I tried to master penny stocks, tax liens, real estate, corporate bonds, growth stocks, stock shorting, FOREX, stock options, commodities, precious metals, etc., all at once. My head hurts just thinking about all of that!

But what you focus on, you will master, I promise you.

So toughen up those Iron Hands and unleash your inner Cyclops and let me know how it goes! I guarantee you will amaze yourself.

"The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus." -- Bruce Lee

[Ed. Note. Susan Fujii won the I Dare You leadership award back in high school and though the monetary award was tiny, the impact on her life has been huge. To this day she recommends William H. Danforth's book, "I Dare You!". You can learn more about Susan and receive her personal finance wisdom for free at www.KungFuFinance.com]
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Susan Fujii, aka Kung Fu Girl, is living proof that the American Dream is still alive and kicking. Having gone from thousands of dollars in debt to becoming a successful, accredited investor, she now lives life on her own terms and teaches others to do the same. But it wasn't always this way... Susan grew up in a small rural town in Northern Michigan and lost her father to lung cancer when she was only three years old. With a single-parent working mother and an extremely modest public school upbringing, Susan wasn't necessarily "destined for success". However, due to continual urging from her mother to "focus on what she HAD, not on what she lacked" and thanks to a strong work ethic, Susan has achieved more than she ever thought she could. Her Kung Fu Finance business has grown from absolute zero less than a year ago, to consistently serving more than 2100 email subscribers and more than 5700 Facebook fans today. She has authored more than 150 articles on the importance of financial education and believes that anyone can achieve financial independence...as long as they are willing to work at it. Susan has recently formed a joint venture with one of the country's largest financial publishers and has helped thousands of people dramatically improve their financial situation. She attributes her success to hard work and perseverance, and is fond of quoting Craig's saying that the path to success is to never, ever, ever, ever, EVER give up! EVER!
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The ETR Dictionary  

The traditional dictionary definition of success doesn't cut it for me.

Dictionary definition: favorable or desired outcome; also : the attainment of wealth, favor, or eminence.

So instead we turn to the New Early to Rise dictionary for our definition of success. It's one that every reader can achieve. It is just a matter of discipline and effort. How hard are you willing to work? How disciplined are you willing to be?

Craig Ballantyne

"The fastest, easiest and most direct way to success is to model it. Don't try to recreate the wheel. Instead, surround yourself with people who are already achieving what you want. Get coaching, buy into Mastermind groups, and model success." - Bedros Keuilian



The True Definition of Success

By Craig Ballantyne

"Success for me," John McAfee explained in Fast Company in 2007, "is can you wake up in the morning and feel like a twelve year old?"

That was before he lost 95% of his net worth. At the time he said that, as Robert Frank
explains in his book, The High-Beta Rich, McAfee was living through a second adolescence, spending rampantly on grown-up toys and making poor investments. A year later, this definition of success had helped destroy his $100 million fortune and left his net worth at just a few million dollars. The point here, however, is not that our view of McAfee's mistakes should be tinged with Schadenfreude.

Instead, McAfee's experiences urge us to look deeper into what the true definition of success is for Early to Rise readers. While I believe in "keeping the child within you alive" (after all, it's Rule #11 on my personal list), acting and feeling like a child is not how I define success.
 
But what is the true definition of success?
 
And who am I to define it?
 
Those were my thoughts on a recent sunny (early) summer morning as I enjoyed another one of our Facebook ETR QnA sessions. I'd even gone so far as to register the domain name, www.SuccessQnA.com that redirects to our Facebook page (because it's a lot easier than referring readers to Facebook-dot-com-forward-slash-the-New-Early-to-Rise).

Early in that particular session, a young reader asked, "What is your definition of success?"

I was momentarily stumped (one of the reasons I prefer the Facebook QnA to live in-person sessions - as no one can see the stunned look on my face when I'm asked a difficult question like this).

My first instinct was to rely on the definition from Dave Kekich listed in his Kekich Credo's that I review each morning. But, while interesting, it isn't exactly what I wanted to say. Kekich Credo #7 states:

"You're successful when you like who and what you are. Success includes achievement...while choosing and directing your own activities. It means enjoying intimate relationships and loving what you do in life."

After dismissing that option, my second reflexive response was to pull a cop-out answer and say, "Success is up to you. Everyone has their own personal definition." But that's not what our reader wanted to hear. They wanted a good answer. They came looking for guidance, and I had better deliver.

I quickly turned my thoughts to the many discussions between Matt Smith and myself about people we admire, about what we looked for in role models and great people.

Matt and I have had a long running debate about what makes a great man. We determined that first, in order to be a great man, you must be a good man. There are two requirements of a good man. First, a good man does everything he says he will do. He honors his contracts. He delivers on his promises. And second, a good man does no harm to others. That's it. Everything you can think of, from the Ten Commandments to every bizarre law passed by Congress, can be covered in these two simple rules for living a good life.

But those are just the prerequisites for being a good man. To be a great man, you have to be doing something great, something far out of the ordinary. As Matt describes it, "You must be 'unboxable'. You can't look at a great man and lump him in with all other good men. He must be doing something great that is outside the norms."

One of the components of doing something great is adding value to the world. And that brings us all the way back to our Facebook 'riddle', "What is success?"

So here's my answer, direct from the Early to Rise dictionary, on the True Definition of Success:

There is no one thing that makes you "successful". For some, it might be raising a healthy, happy, tight family. For others, it might helping dozens, hundreds, thousands, or millions of customers. I suppose if there is one common thread among all areas of success, it's the "Adding of Value". My definition of success is, "If you are adding more value to the world than you are consuming, then you are well on your way to success."

Create value. Help others. Our version of success also ensures a positive legacy...and if you build a positive legacy, you ensure a life of success.

The traditional definition of success won't make you a great man or woman. History is littered with the tragedies of people who  have suffered from personal struggles as their financial success increased. What often brings them down is the other half of the success equation - consumption. While they might continue to add value to the world, they tend to get in trouble because their voracious appetite for consumption outpaces all of the value they create.

As John McAfee admitted after losing 95% of his fortune, "We have over time equated entrepreneurialism with the drive to accumulate wealth. It's a perversion of values."

McAfee learned this powerful lesson the hard way. While there's no reason to shed a tear for him (he's still a multi-millionaire), there's a positive post-script to his story.

Today, you'll find McAfee back living the true definition of success, as defined by Early to Rise. As Robert Frank reports, McAfee has moved to Belize to pursue new vaccines from jungle plants and has started a host of other businesses, including the nation's largest ferry company. He has returned to adding value to the world.

As Lao Tzu, the father of Taoism once said, "The wise man puts himself last and finds himself first."

Just as a byproduct of healthy eating is often weight loss, a byproduct of the ETR version of success (adding value) is often the accumulation of wealth (or some type of reward).

Problems arise when we focus on the outcome rather than the process. The outcome, for almost any goal, can lead to someone following the wrong processes. If the focus is only on weight loss, people try all sorts of unhealthy processes. Just as when we place the focus only on accumulating wealth, we can make all sorts of unrighteous decisions.

However, if you switch your focus from achieving traditional success to the process of adding value to the world, your chances of achieving traditional success will actually increase.

The lessons from Robert Frank's book and from the ETR definition of success should encourage you to do the following:

Be good, be passionate, and add value to the world. There are amazing opportunities out there for you because the world is full of problems that need solving. Be a value adder, not a value extractor. Focus on the process and the outcome - success -should take care of itself.

[Ed. Note. Craig Ballantyne is the Editor of EarlytoRise.com and Financial Independence Monthly. He also coaches executives of companies with sales over $1 million. Today, Matt Smith and Craig are now offering more information on their new virtual mastermind program. Click here to find out more.]
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"I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person." -Og Mandino
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