Challenges in dealing with family members and inheritance

Be better than before, than yesterday...

No money problems, with money bigger problems.

Some old rich say (and even late mother) say do not talk about inheritance (or give out inheritance while alive)    It will be source of quarrels and even crimes.  

If you announce inheritance, the family members simply wait for the principals to die, and no longer work nor study.   This post committed mistakes:   gave out the inheritance and announced the race for the successor..

So my family is in turmoil right now.   So follow the advice:

     1.  Be secretive dont announce your wealth

     2.  Dont announce inheritance

Alot of groups make a lot of money talking about family intramurals solutions